Posted by Annierose on May 2, 2006, at 22:16:53
In reply to Re: So confused and upset, posted by Daisym on May 2, 2006, at 21:55:20
Your T is wise. I agree. It is healthly to leave a home filled with so much anger. But I do sympathize and understand the struggle. Divorce is never easy. Never.
The two paths that your thinking lead to make perfect sense. You don't need your husband's T to believe your truth. That's one good thing about being a grown up, our decisions are our own, we own them and we can make them, despite what well-intended people might think about them.
I'm sure your husband does see your therapy as bad for HIM. But I think you gave yourself a gift of understanding, enlightment, hope for happiness, hope for the future --- isn't that good therapy for YOU. Yes. It is. It is Daisy. This is about you and your life, your happiness, your future.
Hang on. You made a GIANT, BIG decision. It's scary. But give yourself time. Sit with your decision. Trust me, you can go back to your husband anytime. It's more than okay to be without him for as much time as you need, even if you decide you need a lifetime.
You are worth love. You deserve a piece of happiness. You can do this.
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