Posted by happyflower on May 1, 2006, at 16:05:13
In reply to Re: So confused and upset, posted by bassman on May 1, 2006, at 15:41:48
I read your message this morning, but I couldn't come up with what I wanted to say because this feels close to my heart.
First of all, you are not a horrible person. It is good your DH agreed to therapy. Mine hasn't.
But the thing that really gets me is that I also feel that my DH should get indivdual therapy before we even begin to do couples therapy. I am not sure I even want him anymore, and couples therapy would be a waste. Do you have kids? I forget.
But for the sake of my kids, I do want my DH to be the best he can be for them.
I think you are being so strong holding down your beliefs and doing what is best for you, not him. So what has your T said about all of this? Did he know ahead of time what you are going to do?
((((((Daisy))))) Knowing you, and knowing the huge step you took, lets me know that when I am ready , I will be able to too. Your stength had given me strengh. Thanks.
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