Posted by Pfinstegg on May 2, 2006, at 15:30:45
In reply to So confused and upset, posted by Daisym on May 1, 2006, at 2:45:31
Daisy, try not to be upset about that. You are not even the slightest bit horrible- you are great. Your life focus is now on your work and your (wonderful!) Master's Degree, all the progress you have made in therapy- and the progress you will continue to make, the growth and well-being of your sons, and building a new, separate life for yourself. Anything your husband does in therapy will take quite a bit of time (we all know that!), and, if he becomes healthier and happier, it will certainly benefit him and your children, and your dealings with him about your sons. IF it ever happens that you want to return to him, it will be because he has made a LOT of changes. You have been, and will be making your own separate changes, too. You are pretty far ahead of him in that. At this point, all of this, even as a possibility, is quite far in the future. You may well fall in love again with someone new, and remarry! Right now, just concentrate on you.
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