Posted by happyflower on April 25, 2006, at 8:21:19
In reply to Re: Why is the T relationship sometimes the hardest » happyflower, posted by orchid on April 24, 2006, at 18:45:22
> One thing which I did which might be of help, is to try to get deep into your feelings. And see if they are there for a reason, other than the obvious ones >
I haven't come up with anything yet, I have dug deep down, nothing has come to me. All I know is that I felt something for him when I first met him, a feeling I have only felt for grandma, and an old friend who died after HS. It is a deep feeling that I feel that goes all through me. It is like he is inside of my being. This was before I even knew anything about him.
I think my T is sending me mixed signal or maybe I am reading him wrong, I am not sure which one yet. But I know I do need to talk to him about it. It is hard because our lives are getting so intertwined with each other and with other people. So it isn't a cut and dry situation, nor is it a normal T and client situation. But I know I could get hurt, so I am trying to be careful. Thanks Orchid for your advice.
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