Posted by happyflower on May 2, 2006, at 17:43:00
In reply to Chimpanzees, husbands and therapy - oh my!, posted by madeline on May 1, 2006, at 20:37:50
Thanks Maddie,
You know I had to stop crying because I was laughing so hard at what you said, I laughed so hard, I began crying again, but because it was so funny.
I love the part of GENTLY wacking him with a termite stick!
I have deceided to confront him about this. It will be hard because it isn't what I want or feel, I do enjoy him confiding in me, and like him very much. But since he set the boundries that we can't be friends, I want him to stop because it is too hurtful not to be that way in public. I need to say this, but I was kinda hoping like what Orhid said, that since he has already blured that line, why not just be friendly in public. Why should I treat him differently than anyone else in the gym? It seems to me there should be a compromise we could make since our situation is very unique, especially after therapy. For the last 10 months since I started working out at the gym, not once did I try to "do" therapy in public , I kept my distance other than to say hi, which is okay with him. It seems like he can trust my judgement in this a little more. Thursday will be tough, I have so much to talk about and I am afraid I will just sit there not being able to say anything.
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