Re: I guess a part of it could be because of a change

Posted by Karolina on May 1, 2006, at 17:58:01

In reply to I guess a part of it could be because of a change, posted by happyflower on May 1, 2006, at 17:21:54

I would tell him all that...explain your frustration with him confusing you, about where his boundaries are exactly. Maybe being upfront and assertive and explain (in a nicer way but basically) - 'Look, this is MY time, not your's'.
I don't see anything wrong with talking about how you don't know what he really wants, how it kind of feels like a 'tease'..."be my friend in therapy, hear about my life" then "but I can't talk to you openly in public like a friend, it's strictly a therapeutic relationship and can never be anything beyond that"...that's not fair to you!!

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