Posted by Dinah on April 25, 2006, at 21:56:07
In reply to (((((Dinah))))) » Dinah, posted by Tamar on April 25, 2006, at 21:40:24
Yeah, I suspect he thinks I got an inflated sense of my importance to him during the storm and he wants to put me back in my place. Or maybe he realizes that he was inappropriately considering my needs instead of concentrating solely on his family and he wants to make sure that never happens again. Or maybe I'm giving him too much credit and he wasn't thinking of anything but dinner.
But I sure handled boundary reminders better than he does. :(
I think we do often fight before trips. I usually make a real point of being extra special careful before a trip but somehow manage to push one of his buttons and distress myself horribly. This time I was itching for a fight though. One seemed long overdue.
He said some hurtful things that I don't think he meant to be hurtful.
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