Posted by happyflower on April 25, 2006, at 13:52:42
In reply to I wish my therapist would fight more, posted by Dinah on April 25, 2006, at 9:57:57
I think it is good for you to talk about this, I think a lot of feel some something simular, maybe not as intense, because you have been with your T a lot longer than most of us have.
I get the anger part. You need your T to be your T , the old one, not the new one. But then if you get what you ask for, then there is also pain of maybe losing that again. Which losing is so hard,especially if you get what you want again and lose it again, and maybe it feels worse than you feel now. I don't think I am making much sense, but I think I get it.
I know I am a little angry at my T and at myself for falling for such a connection, and now it might be ripped away some day because the relationship isn't personal, it's professional.Please write about this, Dinah, because it is helping me, and I bet it is helping a lot of people too. It is a hard topic to discuss, but sometimes you have to talk about the difficult stuff. ((((((Dinah))))
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