Posted by Dinah on April 25, 2006, at 18:54:02
In reply to Re: I wish my therapist would fight more » Dinah, posted by fairywings on April 25, 2006, at 14:57:06
We had an enormous yelling crying fight. Well, he didn't cry. Complete with threats to end the session early if I didn't behave myself.
I guess that's a good start.
I wish he weren't going away for a week tho. I hate to have my last memory of him be him with his arms folded (metaphorically probably but maybe physically) setting limits.
On the other hand, if he even remembers this session when he gets back, I'll be very much surprised. So he likely won't hold a grudge.
I made a couple of tearful apologetic calls to him after the session. Well one apologetic one, and one telling him how he could have done a better job of answering me. But although I know he likely hadn't left his office yet he neither picked up nor returned my calls. I guess it's too soon for him to be charitably disposed to me.
Oh well. A fight's better than impassive, isn't it?
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