Re: Bullies

Posted by TexasChic on July 10, 2008, at 21:18:34

In reply to Re: Bullies, posted by TexasChic on July 10, 2008, at 20:09:39

When I first saw the write up on the printer, I freaked out and wrote and asked for a meeting with: HR, my boss's boss, and my boss's boss's boss. I quickly realized that last one was probably overkill and super unprofessional. He was very supportive though, here's how it went.
To: The Big Guy
From: T
Subject: Request
I would like to schedule a meeting with you to discuss some problems I'm having with C---. This is very urgent, I hope you can find time to meet with me.
-T
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To: The Big Guy
From: T
Subject: Re: Request
I just had a long talk with B--- and feel much better about things. Im sorry to have disturbed you. I was really upset at the time.
-T
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To: T
From: The Big Guy
Subject: Request
T,
I just saw this email after being in meetings and I am glad you had the chat with B---, Ill follow up with B--- in the morning and see what he has to say.
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To: The Big Guy
From: T
Subject: Re: Request
Thank you. I am going to try to do what it takes to prove my competence. I know that I can do anything C--- throws at me, its just a matter of my being clear of what she wants. So by writing me up I will have it all spelled out. Its just very frustrating to work so hard and rather than being appreciated, you are told your work is sub-par. But I know its not true, and everyone else in the department has made it clear they think I am an above average employee, so Im determined not to let it get me down.
Thank you for taking an interest.
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To: T
From: The Big Guy
Subject: Request
That is exactly the way to pursue this. You learn to be the best at your skill set and I am sure things will improve.
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So I think I managed to turn around a potential mistake. I think I will be supported if I just try to work hard and prove myself.
-T

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