Posted by TexasChic on July 10, 2008, at 19:45:11
In reply to Re: Bullies » TexasChic, posted by Dinah on July 10, 2008, at 12:06:55
Yeah, the fact that there's a pattern hasn't been lost on me. There are probably ways I could better handle these situation and maybe keep them from getting to this point. What's even worse is I seem to choose the same people as friends! That's why I don't have any now, I just got tired of it. But the problem is I can't afford a T right now.
I've decided the best way to handle this is to treat it like a challenge. I know I can handle whatever she throws at me as long as I'm being judged fairly. And I've been assured that a third party from HR will be involved in every step. So all I have to do is get everything in writing, and make sure its very specific about how things will be decided, and then just do it. The thing I'm actually worried about it how to get a hold of my anger about all this. Somehow I will have to appear cordial and submissive and somehow refrain from telling her what a pathetic idiot I think she is. I guess that will be the real challenge.
She was being all nice to me today. I don't know whether she's aware that I know, even though I handed the write up to her off the printer and said, I believe this is yours. She might not have thought I actually read it (which I did before she walked in).
I know I need to just find another job, but I'm so tired of having to find another job! I wanted this one to work! I'm tired of always getting pushed out! I am one of the hardest workers you'd ever meet and just don't deserve this! The whole thing just doesn't make sense to me.
I wish I could just go live in the wilderness or something.
-T
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