Posted by Dinah on May 31, 2009, at 12:42:51
In reply to Re: Back to the same yucky place » Dinah, posted by Annierose on May 31, 2009, at 12:22:01
The scheduling stuff would hurt me too. And make me angry. I totally understand. And your therapist's interpretations grounding it in childhood would make me see red. Sometimes we're angry about stuff in the here and now because we have reason to be angry in the here and now.
In fact, your therapist seems to make a lot more interpretations than mine does, and I think that would bug me no end too, unless they were made as suggestions.
Overall, in the larger context, I can see why you aren't in a good spot in therapy right now.
I used to closet sit! Even now, I have a mat down in my closet for if I ever feel the need for that quiet space. I just haven't used it lately. It was nowhere near as cozy as you made yours though. Shouldn't she congratulate you for making a cozy nest for yourself where you could feel safe? I guess there are walls, but there is also the creation of warmth and comfort. And that's pretty cool for a kid to be able to do.
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