Posted by antigua on March 15, 2005, at 8:42:51
In reply to Re: thanks, AuntieMel and antigua, posted by sunny10 on March 15, 2005, at 8:06:22
Well, hopefully you relieved some of the pressure on yourself by snapping. Sometimes it really helps. Just remember, as much as you would like to, you can't believe everything he says--it's his addiction talking and he'll say anything if he thinks it will keep you off his back. That said, he may be speaking the truth--it's so hard to guage, and it can be quite a heartache.
I'm glad you're going to take care of yourself first. Try not to think of this as a battle of how much he loves or cares for you--try to keep a perspective on your own feelings.
best,
antigua
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