Posted by Toph on March 10, 2005, at 12:28:21
In reply to not happy, exactly,Susan47, just existing..., posted by sunny10 on March 10, 2005, at 12:02:00
So glad to hear from you again sunny. Your situation with your SO is difficult. In any relationship controlling the other person's behavior is often met with resistence and resentment. You might think that he would consider quiting for someone he cared about, but he has to want to change for himself. I was wondering, is he taking drugs to self-medicate, to fill some whole in his life or to escape from some painful experience?
Toph
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