Posted by annierose on April 30, 2006, at 22:11:03
In reply to Re: lesbian sexual feelings fantasy 4 myT » Veracity, posted by happyflower on April 30, 2006, at 21:11:35
I agree with Falls. I am female and see a female T and both of us are married to men. I do have loving feelings for my T, although I do not fantasize about her. But I can see how that could happen, how those loving feelings could be sexual, even though I am not gay.
My point is - it is two different things entirely. Just because you want to kiss your T, doesn't automatically mean you are a lesiban - and to borrow a line from Seinfeld - although there's nothing wrong with that.
This is something that would be good to explore in therapy, especially if she is pyschodynamically orientated. have you ever told her how you feel? How has she responded in the past?
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