Posted by fairywings on April 28, 2006, at 19:28:49
In reply to Re: Anger and bitterness, posted by TherapyGirl on April 28, 2006, at 14:47:06
No, no, no TG! I didn't think you were suggesting that at all - really. I think sometimes when I hear what I don't want to hear, I start to either get mad, or feel sorry for myself. I think after the other day I was feeling sorry for myself. Then I realized he said the worst thing anyone could say to me...that I was angry and bitter. That's my mom, I never wanted to be my mom!
Now I have to decide do I want to be my mom, or do I want to .... like daisy was saying use the anger or hurt to challenge myself to be better than I am now. And I have to decide whether I want to continue with this T because I don't like to be hurt. And I think if I continue with him, maybe it will keep me circling self pity instead of dealing with it the best I know how.
Thanks for what you said, I'm sorry I sounded sarcastic...if that's how I sounded. I was serious....I have to quit self pity.
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