Posted by antigua on November 30, 2005, at 12:00:41
In reply to Re: Unconscious Seduction - long » allisonross, posted by daisym on November 30, 2005, at 10:41:54
My strong feelings don't revolve around my T, but as I've already mentioned, they can be very intense for male authority figures that remind me of my father. The trick I've learned is that when they surface, that means something is going on. For example, the feelings were in full force over the Thanksgiving holiday, which was a major trigger for me w/my mother around, but they abated this time after I dealt with the situation. So it's the ebb and flow that I watch, and I'm never wrong. The trick is to go into therapy, bring them up and find how they relate to my father. That's the hard part.
They will get better. I promise you.
best,
antigua
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