Posted by Kath on April 2, 2006, at 20:30:23
In reply to I had no human contact in over 2 years., posted by linkadge on March 30, 2006, at 21:01:37
I don't know where you live, but at CoDependants Anonymous Meetings (12-Step, same idea as AA) there are hugs after the meeting for those who want to. CoDA is a wonderful organization. You might be able to find out if there's a group near you from your Hospital, or Mental Health association, or Social services, if any nearby town is big enough.
CoDA is for people who want to have healthy relationships with others.
I think we all sorta need to have touch & it can be really really lonely not to have it. You're probably right in that it's harder for guys to get non-sexual touch. Our society is pretty messed-up in that regard.
If you can afford it, massage is great. Sometimes there are Massage Therapy Schools where you can get less expensive massages from senior students.
You're in my thoughts. Your post probably speaks out about something that's a big issue for a LOT of people, so I hope you don't feel too alone. Thanks for being brave enough to speak of it.
Hugs - (wish they could be in person) Kath
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