Posted by Damos on June 6, 2005, at 17:34:37
In reply to Re: This is about Sex and Men, posted by caraher on June 6, 2005, at 14:20:35
Caraher,
There is so much you so here that's true for me too. I've never thought of any woman other than the one I was with. And when I did have thoughts about it during the day, it was almost always about the next time I would be with that person - not a whole bunch of others.
The sleep thing is interesting because they did actually research it and the act of ejaculating does cause the release of chemicals that make you want to sleep. Pre sleep though my thoughs were pretty much the same as those you expressed and wondering how someone so beautiful could want to be with me like that.
And you're absolutely right about the invisibility of imperfections except that it's true always before, during and after. She is who she is and she's beautiful and perfect just as she is and what is truly attracting me comes from somewhere unexplainable deep inside anyway.
The appreciatiion thing is a hard one. I guess I've never been good at it (or at least don't think I am) but that's about me not feeling like I deserve to be there, not about not appreciating her. More often than not, even when I've felt bad about myself, lookin ginto the eyes of this beautiful person beside me and the though of her having given herself to me in such a way makes me want to cry.
poster:Damos
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