Posted by Angel Girl on January 23, 2005, at 17:27:25
In reply to Re: please rephrase that - PS Dr. Bob (alexandra) » Angel Girl, posted by gardenergirl on January 23, 2005, at 16:26:18
That is why I need the ability to clarify it. I did mention the reason in my original post here but Dr. Bob ommitted that part in his 'please rephrase that' to me.
Yes, it is certainly the word still being there. I feel very traumatized by that but there is more that it seems I can not clarify or at least know how to rephrase to not cause hurt feelings. Hint: It is not for any action to be taken against any poster, I'm beyond that now, although I certainly was upset about that in the beginning. I'm sorry, I *really* don't know how to phrase things properly here; hence my 2nd reason I stated for the need to leave. Maybe all these drugs have fried my brain to the point that I am no longer able to comprehend things anymore. I don't know, at this point I think I'm just rambling and saying nothing that makes any sense to anybody other than me. :(
AG
> Well, I do understand how it might be incomplete the way I wrote it. Although in this case, I think everyone knows how you are feeling, and you are getting tons of support on that.
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> Perhaps "I continue to feel hurt when I see that word by my name"?
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> Although I wonder if you may be also wishing to say something along the lines of "you didn't give a flying fig for my feelings?" And if so, perhaps you could say "I feel uncared for [or neglected or overlooked] when I see my name and that word in the same line."
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> But then again, perhaps I am not quite understanding what is continuing to upset you.
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> gg
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