Posted by Roo on May 16, 2002, at 10:30:19
In reply to Back To Basics On Sex (sort of personal ), posted by NancyLee on May 15, 2002, at 7:47:32
Before marriage I was bisexual now that might have been due to being in my manic phases because when I was manic sex was constant I was the most promiscuous person I know of.
> So I was thinking that a night in a nice hotel with a nice dinner and a relaxing atmosphere with my bag of goodies maybe massge oil? might help. But I must say I dont know if it is the change in meds or the addition of Trileptol I was telling everyone about, but Im feeling ready again.
> So I think it will be like brand new for us again.......................peace & love
Sorry no one has really answered your post...it sucks
when you put something really personal out there and no one
bites (at least it sucks to me!) You talk about sex, and that's
a really vulnerable thing, isn't it? Anyway, back to your
post---why not try those things? It couldn't hurt...another thing
I thought of while reading your post was it might be kind of exciting
for your husband to watch you masterbate (talk about graphic...) that
way you can please yourself, and he can see how you do it....and it's
such a personal thing that takes so much guts, that it might make you
feel closer. I don't know if you've ever tried that before, but it
was just an idea that popped into my head. Are you on any meds that
effect you sexually? How's the emotional intimacy between you and your
husband? Have you talked with him about these ideas? That might be kind
of exciting....
Good luck and keep me posted--
poster:Roo
thread:23803
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