Posted by Fivefires on September 10, 2008, at 14:08:40
In reply to Re: FIVEFIRES, posted by Just Me33 on September 5, 2008, at 17:22:59
My reasons for suggesting you call is 1) to get it out of your head and over with, and 2) you don't want to look back 10yrs from now and know you didn't give it your best shot and 'what if' it would have worked.
I'd be here (Well, I'm not online everyday though, I'm sorry about this.), and there's always someone here to hold your hand if he is rude or plays one of those Gemini tricks like 'I'll call you back' and doesn't. Clue: Say "bet ya' won't' or 'Yeah talk to you next year' and laugh like it doens't bother you; he'll be lucky to get you again. (A tiny bit of game playing there.)
There's usually some charisma, gentleness, creativity, things interesting which are difficult to resist in this man, but then there's the opposites which are not good. I've hung onto one for over 10yrs and right now my life is in the rubish, really. He likes to 'be taken care of' not 'to take care of'.
I just told him when he said 'please don't leave me, I need you' ... 'reverse that, I've always given, my turn to need'.
He hasn't responded. He's dumbfounded. He prob' turned it off for a bit.
He/they appreciate a woman who has it altogether, because usually they don't, even though they say so. Jeez - Sounds like a lesson on astro.
will read your next post
5f
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