Posted by sunny10 on March 23, 2005, at 8:28:13
In reply to Re: Sex again. Sigh. (possible trigger) » pinkeye, posted by Dinah on March 23, 2005, at 5:49:35
Dinah,
How could there be a documented incident if there was no abuse? Now, by "abuse", I use it purely as a medical phrase here.In some way, it seems that your genitals were abused. No matter who caused that physical abuse to your genitals- it happened. I'm sure there was pain involved- whether that be physical pain only (it was an accident), or physical and emotional pain (because it would have been someone you knew).
I'm not sure whether I believe hypnosis works, but I know I would try it- just to have them try to banish the aversion; whether you want to "know what happened" or not is an entirely different issue.
Would you truly like to make the aversion go away, or do you feel it "protects you" in some way? I definitely feel that you should go over this again and again with your T until you get some peace.
((((((((((Dinah))))))))))))))
Wish I could give you that hug in person...
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