Posted by pinkeye on March 22, 2005, at 21:47:18
In reply to Re: Sex again. Sigh. » pinkeye, posted by Dinah on March 22, 2005, at 21:26:36
Is it possible that it comes from a freudian view - that kids sometimes confuse their fathers with husband, and they develop some form of disfunctional view of sex? My therapist says that I have it too. That I confused my fahter with my husband, because we shared a pretty close relationship. She tells me it makes me want men who I cannot have, and not want men whom I can have.
Could yours be triggered by something like that? I remember you saying in a thread that you had a pretty deep relationship with your father. Maybe you confused him for your companion growing up and then since it was so taboo a thing, just developed an overall hate for sex? I am shooting completely in the dark, but I am trying to extrapolate what my thearpist told me. I think you also mentioned that you are fat - I used to be fat too, and I think some of it was my desire to perceive myself as being unlikeable - beucase thinking of myself as a healthy sexual person was little difficult - but that was long back though.
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