Posted by Dinah on May 17, 2009, at 8:21:02
In reply to Re: I guess I lost it :( » Dinah, posted by Daisym on May 15, 2009, at 22:54:54
See, I'm not usually like that. My husband and I fight very respectfully. He told me I was acting like my mother once. But we worked that out and added it to the below the belt remarks.
I tend to attend to the relationship as a whole more than I do to any given moment in the relationship.
Still, with my therapist I do occasionally blow up and act unkindly. Maybe because I have no belief that I can hurt him. Maybe because I don't think I can hurt him, I'm driven to try. On occasion. Rare occasion I hope.
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