Posted by Daisym on May 15, 2009, at 22:54:54
In reply to Re: I guess I lost it :( » rskontos, posted by Dinah on May 15, 2009, at 19:10:56
I think one of the great things about being secure in a relationship is being able to show your anger, even in an unkind way, and yet still know that the relationship will be OK. These bad minutes pass and fade. I'm jealous of your courage.
sometimes I watch couples fight on TV and I'm always blown away when someone speaks their own truth clearly, no matter if it hurts the other person. Not making excuses for another's bad behavior or poor judgement means you trust that they can hear you and make their own adjustments. We tell parents to say, "I don't like what you did, not I don't like you."
You did that today. It was good.
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