Posted by Racer on April 24, 2007, at 19:15:25
In reply to Re: Question re:sex/honesty ***BIG CSA TRIGGERS***, posted by toetapper on April 24, 2007, at 18:22:21
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> Many people have told me what some other people here have told you, give it a try, go slow, try other things first, etc. There is no middle ground for me, there just isn’t. And the constant suggestion to TRY really hurts my feelings, like I’m being unreasonable.You're absolutely right, and I hadn't thought of that when I posted my advice. I'm sorry, and I apologize to Muffled, if she read it that way, too.
Funny, I get something similar in another area of my life right now -- people saying "oh, that's OK, just do this instead" and it really gets under my skin. I regret very much that I've just done the same dang thing myself. Rats. Thank you, though, for helping me get some good perspective on my own behavior.
And Muffled? I am truly sorry if you thought I was putting pressure on you to be any different from what you are. You're perfectly fine exactly as you are, unless you want to become SuperMuffly! :-D
poster:Racer
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