Posted by gazo on April 24, 2007, at 18:48:43
In reply to Re: Question re:sex/honesty ***BIG CSA TRIGGERS***, posted by toetapper on April 24, 2007, at 18:22:21
i am very sorry for your experiences, it is powerfully sad that happened to you. i am also sorry that responses, mine at least, may have lead you to feel defensive. i think the suggestions to try come from muffled's implication that she wants to find a way... that maybe it's on her mind as a "start now" sort of thing. i hope i am not making inappropriate assumptions at all, or speaking for her ni a way that is inaccurate. In her reply to me she seemed to appreciate the ideas.
i would say i am sorry that you are in the space you are in... but i think that would be very inappropriate as you seem to feel as though it is the right space for you right now. i am sorry for the things that made this an issue for you at all. But if your heart and your mind tell you that this is not for you then i think you are doing exactly what you need to do. i think it is a good thing that you know this about yourself.
i hope my suggestions haven't hurt muffled.. i want her to be happy and safe... and you too
poster:gazo
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