Posted by muffled on September 25, 2006, at 18:25:39
In reply to responses to Rambing **trig?, posted by ElaineM on September 25, 2006, at 18:12:51
Thanks for the update El.
Hope appts. go ok.
I guess could you ask your T if he knows any T's (esp female) that are taking clients?
Mebbe he doesn't know any?
He shouldn't feel threatened cuz its him thats trying to push the boundaries of the T relationship.
And he should understand that sometimes a woman just wants to talk to another woman, and not a man.
Its not like you would be dumping him at all. You couyld still be friends, but w/o the complications of him being your T as well.
But mebbe this has alrerady been discussed and I've forgotten it.
Sorry if so.
Take care El, You been trying so hard I know, keep it up as best you can, and rest when you need to.
Seems in this dumb world thats its the squeeky wheel that gets oiled......
Not neccessarily the one most needing it......
Wish you could have someone more neutral to advocate for you. At least you would have some help finding help.
(((((EL))))))
Muffled
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