Posted by orchid on April 28, 2006, at 14:51:28
In reply to I HATE THERPY!!!, posted by B2chica on April 28, 2006, at 9:58:59
Geez. Your T sounds a lot like my second T. Cold and unemotional and driving on and on and I did feel like running away from her many times. And she wouldn't do anything nice for me - never said she liked me much, or showed that she cared for me, or did anything tender or sweet.
Personally, I didn't take a liking to her because she was so very unemotional, but again, I have to say that she ended up helping me so very much. And now, I have nothing left but gratitude for her.
I personally would have felt better with a male T or a more empathetic woman T at that time, but I think in the end, I ended up growing more with my T.
And I think sometimes what we like is not neceessarily good for us.
I don't know full well about your T to support her. But it seems to me that she is trying to get you to really face issues that you need facing. Maybe she could be more gentle, and empathetic, but maybe you really need to face those issues and she is driving you mercilessly to do that - for your own sake.
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