Posted by Karolina on April 27, 2006, at 23:12:25
In reply to Re: Crush on My Counselor- Out of Control? Tamar, posted by DisposableDoll on April 27, 2006, at 22:29:47
Girl.. I can't even tell you how much I understand how you're feeling!! Seriously, I'd say almost everything that you have written about, is like exactly what I'm dealing with right now, same thoughts, feelings about him, etc. Please don't think you are crazy!
I really don't have any answers on how to talk to him and that kind of thing (sorry about that), I guess because I am dealing with the same thing myself, but I just want you to know you are so not alone with this. I have the strongest sexual desire to seduce my T...I would plan what to wear before I saw him, avoid bringing up subjects to keep him from thinking I'm crazy, would fantasize about him and all of that sort of thing.
We've grazed the surface of the subject of me being attracted to him, but as I recently posted, he tends to avoid it and acts really nervous a lot, which makes it hard to figure out how he's feeling around me. Of course I wish he was attracted to me but I doubt he would ever say anything about that. I don't think I could ever tell him straight out though that I fantasize about seducing him and actually want to. I think I wouldn't want to hear his response, which would be a huge rejection. It's almost like I don't want to talk about it so openly because then I know any chance of it ever happening would be completely blown.
Anyway I hope you feel better and wish you good luck with your situation =)
-Karolina-
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