Posted by Racer on April 25, 2006, at 18:49:54
In reply to Re: T is confusing me, posted by happyflower on April 25, 2006, at 7:48:29
LoL! My last pdoc was a good-looking guy, but I swear I could feel his "I know you're attracted to me" vibes from down the hallway! And, as it happened, I wasn't. I can certainly see that he was a good looking guy, but felt NOTHING about it. Couldn't even do my usual, "A thing of beauty is a joy forever" about him. Just "He's good looking. Eh."
That was part of why I changed pdocs, and now see a woman.
As for sexual tension with a therapist, I think that's why I could never see a man. We've discussed this before on this board, so I won't say more. It is funny, though, isn't it?
Good luck. And I agree about bringing it up again, because the frsutration of having it brushed aside as well as the distracting nature of his fidgets are both issues for therapy...
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