Posted by Karolina on April 24, 2006, at 22:12:01
Sometimes there just feels like there is SO much tension in the room between us. I am attracted to him, and he knows that (said he felt flattered by it, and that it felt great knowing that a 'really cute girl like me, 'liked' him...yea whatever) but I feel disatisfied by our conversation about it. He kept trying to change subjects and it was so frustrating. I wish I didn't feel that way about him, but it's like I try to ignore the feeling and it gets worse, more intense. Would trying to bring it up and talk about it again help? Or do I just try to ignore it and focus on other things?
Then him. He stares at me so much that I feel almost paranoid. I know they look at you to listen, but he'll just keep looking at me so hard even after I'm done talking. Other times he acts so nervous and looks down, can't make eye contact with me, plays with a pen or his ring, and keeps shifting around in his chair. Why would he be so nervous sometimes? Maybe I am paying too much attention to how he acts. But it is distracting me so badly.
Should I ask him if I make him uncomfortable? I don't know what the heck is going on. And I hate writing about it on here because I would be mortified if he read this. Do Ts know about psychobabble, do any of you all's Ts visit here?
Sorry so many questions = )
-Katrina-
poster:Karolina
thread:636768
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