Posted by annierose on April 25, 2006, at 15:14:06
In reply to Re: Thanks All. » Daisym, posted by Dinah on April 25, 2006, at 14:11:22
Everyone said it so well. Read and re-read what they wrote. It's okay to cry and grieve, to feel guilty, to feel rage, to be relieved (finally) and then feel guilty again. It does get better. The long death of a marriage is still a death. And that takes time.
What I remember most about going through the divorce process was the sense of shame, that I failed. That I am a failure. With time I realized that we failed each other. It wasn't "my fault" or "his" (well, it mostly was). On a much lighter note (and shallow), I remember getting very thin because I couldn't stomach anything.
Sending you all my love,
gather up all your support systems,
take it each day as it comes.Love, Annie
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