Posted by gobbledygook on May 27, 2009, at 22:37:16
In reply to Re: I am going on dates tomorrow (weds), posted by Deneb on May 27, 2009, at 21:32:46
"I love Dr. Bob and my future boyfriend will just have to accept that."
*****Yes, but the real question is, can Dr. Bob accept your boyfriend...Without issuing him a block? lol.------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
"Is 34 too old for me? I am 27. My Mom says I should date men who are no more than 5 years older than me.
Both guys today were 34. I have some other guys who want to have coffee with me who are younger."
*****No, 34 is definitely not too old - but, it's not a question of a biological age. It's a question of his emotional
and mental age being compatible with yours. I also wouldn't be too concerned with the looks as I've found their
attractiveness always ended up correlating with their inner qualities...I think you've alreay experienced that with your
second date today.Does he have a good heart? Does he make you feel good about yourself? Does he respect you?
Do you have similar values? Is he responsible, understanding, smart, etc.? Not to mention how you feel about him...
and his family.Spotting all this right away comes with experience, and unfortunately after encountering many frogs.
But, you know there's always someone for everybody - just look at all the people walking around. You just have to
not sell yourself short.------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
"I am having fun. I am so different from my anxious, low self esteem me from several years ago.
I feel confident and happy and am looking for someone who is the same. Someone who is excited about life like
me and who loves living, having fun and is a hard worker."
*****That's just great, Deneb! And you know what? You will eventually find someone who is confident and happy,
if you are that person yourself. Keep going...but, safely.
Gobbledygook -
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