Posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on August 26, 2008, at 14:05:31
In reply to Re: Sorry, posted by daveuk08 on August 26, 2008, at 4:54:18
Dave....
You have such concern and empathy about others, and those are as good as any tools to help you along the way. I think I mentioned this before, and I really don't like to talk about it...you can probably guess why, but I too lost my "soulmate" (my true *love*..as well as the love I would have given my own life for, our child..and damn I thought how can any God be so bloody f*&^%ing insensitive???...I thought happiness was forever...then, anyways..) in an accident when I was about 25 years old. No two losses are "the same", and grief is always unique in many ways. I imagine the fact that Slinky choose the way she did, (and maybe the choice isn't as simple as that), it complicates things further for you. I was so full of deep rage, anger, tears, and pain after what happened, it took me ten years before I could actually go out and even just get a job again. Luckily I have very loving parents, who helped me through it all.
And it still hasn't ended...it never will.If you find some positive energy on here, grab it and hold it tight and close. Just take one day, one hour, one minute at-a-time. I used to think about my future, and it scared the hell out of me, so I would say to myself..."Something will come up.."
Best to you bud....
Jay
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