Posted by Quintal on March 20, 2007, at 14:44:03 [reposted on March 24, 2007, at 22:50:48 | original URL]
In reply to Re: Sexuality With Reference to Gender » Quintal, posted by kaleidoscope on March 20, 2007, at 14:20:29
>No, but not many men have vaginas. It is, after all, a characteristic that one normally associates with women ;)
Actually I normally associate breasts, wide hips and smooth, delicate features with women since I rarely see their vaginas. The gonads are (perhaps paradoxically) fairly gender neutral to me when I explore the matter more deeply.
>......but a she-male is a man with breast implants and make-up etc. I would perceive a she-male as being a man, not as a woman.
Well the breast implants, make-up, hour-glass hips etc. would be signalling 'female' to the gender detector in my mind, despite the penis. I wonder who they are aimed at, it's not gay men is it? I think most of their admirers are men who 'identify themselves' as heterosexual. FredPotter et al, what is your position on 'shemales'?
I wonder what lesbians make of them? Are there any free thinking lesbians around here? Could you imagine yourself having sex with a 'shemale'? Do they attract you, do they repulse you?
>I know what you mean there. There's something about hetero men that is more attractive - nice hetero men that is. Gay men are usually unattractive to me.
Yup, and therein I think lies a lot of frustration and dissatisfaction for gay men.
Q
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