Posted by kaleidoscope on March 20, 2007, at 14:20:29 [reposted on March 24, 2007, at 22:50:48 | original URL]
In reply to Re: Sexuality With Reference to Gender » kaleidoscope, posted by Quintal on March 19, 2007, at 19:26:56
Hi Q
>Or would he, if in every other aspect he had the appearance of a man? Are you saying gender is purely an issue of genital tissue?
No, but not many men have vaginas. It is, after all, a characteristic that one normally associates with women ;)
>Allow if you will that gender had evolved the other way around, with women having the penis and men having the vagina. Would the genital tissue make all the difference to you?
I have no idea :)
>some hard-to-pin-down-and-examine essence of man that I often find lacking in myself and fellow homosexuals
I know what you mean there. There's something about hetero men that is more attractive - nice hetero men that is. Gay men are usually unattractive to me.
>For example, do you find 'shemales' attractive simply because they have a penis? I don't because I still perceive them as women despite their anomalous appendages.
......but a she-male is a man with breast implants and make-up etc. I would perceive a she-male as being a man, not as a woman. I don't find she-males attractive though, although they are interesting.
>It has a lot to do with the photo I found
The one you once emailed me? It was certainly interesting but would probably be a lot more shocking in real life that it was in the picture.
Overall, I'm hoping to meet a nice friendly young man........definitely not a man with a vagina :D
K
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