Posted by corafree on May 6, 2006, at 13:44:48
In reply to Re: Help! What does 'moving on' mean to you?, posted by Phillipa on May 6, 2006, at 12:31:47
My mother 'moved on' and/or 'got a life'. She bought it for $300,000. Really.
I'm giving 'getting through IT, over IT, under IT, around IT' some serious thought.
But first, need to pinpoint which IT, it is. There have been more than one its!
If I can identify 'the it' that's really got me stuck, maybe I could begin 'getting through it'.
Sounds like the real way to 'move on' and/or 'get a life'.
But, it happened years ago, sounds like hard work, and I've grown accustomed to 'ignoring it'!
And, I t h i n k 'my it', is 'an it' that I just moved within a mile of!!?? I wonder if I have made a gigantic mistake ... moving so close to 'my it'. (My mother sold my old home because she needed the money, and just bought this one for me to live in. I miss my old home. She built herself a new one. She has a lot of homes. This is a mess. I was trying to be a good daughter and did not object to her using me as her Monopoly piece.) I'm afraid I've really made a very seriously stu*id move (physical move) here!
I need a supertherapist! I had one. She was my DBT therapist and she's back 'there'; back there where I physically moved from. She was trying to help me 'see IT' when we were 'interrupted by my mother's needs'.
Oh Wow .. I've allowed her and others to throw me down over their puddles so they could cross w/o getting their feet wet!
Maybe I need to call the aforementioned therapist soon!
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