Re: I wonder why Dr. Bob won't accept my scarf » Deneb

Posted by LegWarmers on April 4, 2006, at 20:53:33

In reply to Re: I wonder why Dr. Bob won't accept my scarf » LegWarmers, posted by Deneb on April 4, 2006, at 20:38:54

> > > > healthy boundaries
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> > yeah, those darn things are kind of important ; )
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> I think I cross boundaries often. Is it okay for me to cross them? Dr. Bob maintains his boundaries so it shouldn't be much of a problem if I cross them right?
If you cross them with Bob? What I have learned through my life is that boundries are vital. Without them people feel uncomfortable, people get into fights, people violate others' space. Boundries may seem insignificant now, but they are really important.
> I wish he didn't have to do that. Hmmm...but then again would I love him as much if he didn't distance himself? Interesting question.
it is.

> Dr. Bob wrote:
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> > I'm sorry about not being able to reply promptly to everyone. Please don't take it personally. It doesn't mean you're just a drop in the bucket or I'm not interested. I have warm feelings for everyone who posts, because everyone who posts helps the community by contributing their unique voice.
> >
> > Bob
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> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20060225/msgs/614133.html
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> He said he doesn't think we are just drops in a bucket. (or pens in your case)
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> >I have so many of those little blue pens all over the place and if I gave them all a name in addition to remembering all my in real life stuff I would never remember which pen was which.
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> I think I post here often enough that he would remember me...
I was being slightly extreme, I supose what I was getting at is that he has his 'life' too. Im sure he would know LegWarmers as well... but I still think we are a bunch of pens in a bulk size package ; )

> I think he thinks we are much more than just names.
Yeah.. but we are posters, not friends, and thats important to remember.
>
> I want to make Bob happy and show him my love by donating money, but I don't have my own money right now. I gotta get a job first.
So, to you, is this place all about Bob? Or do you also see it as a community with Bob administering?

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