Posted by TexasChic on November 18, 2005, at 16:21:33
In reply to Re: I bit the bullet » TexasChic, posted by Angela2 on November 18, 2005, at 9:30:30
His email was sweet. Here are some of the things he wrote (keep in mind that English is his second language):
I am so happy to see your email. I'm sorry to hear your grandmother passed away, I still remember all the things you told me about her and C______ [my nephew] ...
We enjoy J_____ a lot, he is a lot of fun, I can't believe we waited this long to have kid. I enjoy being a father everyday...Like I said, even [though] a lot of unfortunate things happen between us, all I remembered and kept are the good times that we had together, it was us two helping each other to get through a lot of long hard working days at B_______.
Keep in touchI'm trying hard not to read too much into every word. But that's me, I over analyze everything. I keep thinking, he made no mention of wanting to get together. Of couse, I didn't mention it in my email either. And the part at the end just reiterates the fact that he never really understood what happened & why I got so mad. When he teamed up with our supervisor to get me in trouble (and put the blame on me for a few things), all I could think of was how all that time we stuck together, and then he sided with the instigator! I felt so betrayed! But its obvious that isn't what he thinks happened, otherwise, he wouldn't have said that.
I do feel good about doing this. Its nice to know we were able to make peace, even if this is the extent of it. I'm feeling a little melancholy though. But I guess that's about usual for me anyway.
I'm having my nephew over tomorrow night, which means I won't have a chance to be sad. He always cheers me up. I've got to clean up this apartment though! He'll tell me how messy it is!
-T
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