Posted by sunny10 on April 22, 2005, at 9:00:24
In reply to Re: Hey, Suze, you're not going to believe this!! » sunny10, posted by damos on April 21, 2005, at 21:50:52
I am furious about the money thing- unfortunately for me, I know where his psychosis regarding "hoarding money" comes from...
Damn- it would definitely be easier for me to just cut and run if I DIDN'T know this about him!!!
But I am definitely doing as Lar says and keeping the financial issues seperate from the emotional ones. It is definitely true that I find paying "the extra" worth my peace of mind...
And he has to do ALL the work if he wants there to be an "us". I am no longer even willing to "coax" him into thinking about what it is he promised to do. If he "conveniently forgets" that he promised to go to anger management classes and therapy, then it is completely obvious that I should "conveniently forget" that I love him.
It will hurt, but let's face it, I am hurting already...
Oh, and I have just received an email from the rental agent saying that I have to give her two cashier's checks.
1) one month's rent to her company $1300.00, and
2) May, June, and July to the property owner.
and that I "will get the pet deposit back once the property is inspected".Our original agreement was that we would sign over the security deposit to her company and give the property owner the May, June, and July rental amount and they would return the pet deposit I had paid.
So now I had to write her another email asking what will happen to the security deposit.
It's now sounding like they want $4900.00 in cashier's checks AND they keep the security deposit instead of the $3600.00 we'd agreed upon in her office, with the last $1300.00 already on deposit in the escrow account with them....
So now my SO has given me $1000.00 towards $4900.00?????!!!!????
I am being tweaked money-wise every which way. I hope that my email reminds the rental agent what we had agreed upon, but it's sounding like I am getting scr*wed again. Geez, who needs an SO, I'm getting scr*wed anyway!!!!! And they didn't even kiss me first....
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