Posted by sunny10 on April 21, 2005, at 14:39:34
So my SO and I have to pay $3600.00 to get out of the lease, will lose our security deposit ($1300.00, one month's rent) and I will get the $700.00 pet deposit back after they make sure the floors are ok...Much better than the $22,100.00 they were threatening...
Anyway- My SO has already gotten most of his things out of the house; he just has some kitchen stuff and the desk (which I bought him!) to dismantle and move. He did this last week. Left dirty dishes in the sink while he was there- did no clean up at all.
I supplied all of the furniture in the house, the rugs, et cetera.
I have been there every night after work; packing and cleaning behind me as I go to leave the house ready for inspection. I do not have a truck- he does.
Ever since the termination meeting, he keeps calling me to make sure I haven't changed my mind and that he will be released from the lease contract. We both will have to pay $1800.00 to get out. He said that he only has a thousand for now, but that he'd pay me the other $800 as soon as he gets it- can I front it?!?
I want out, too, so I said ok, I'd front it. Then he asked me if I would give the $700.00 pet deposit to his mom when I got it, since she lent him $1000.00 to move in. Move in was first month's rent, the security deposit, and the pet deposit. He paid the first month's rent with only $300.00 of his own money, the other thousand from his mom's loan. I paid the security deposit and the pet deposit. And he wants ME to pay back his mom?!?! Is he nuts?
AND he thanks me for cleaning as I pack, but has not OFFERED to help at ALL. I should charge HIM half of what we would have paid a cleaning lady!!!
He offered to help me move with his truck on Saturday in front of the rental agent, then when we were alone he told me that he has plans to go to his friend's house on Saturday to practice their guitars! Guess he just wanted to look good in front of a third party....
He says now that he still considers me his girlfriend and doesn't want any other girlfriends, but that he needs to de-stress about the house before he even thinking about "us". He said that he needs some time, but that I should call him with an invitation for pizza and a movie "since you're the one with a place". So it sounds more like he expects to have a date and sex once a week. He says he thinks we would benefit "from a lesser relationship", and that we should start by dating, because we never did that since he moved here from another state for me.
And that's all well and good, relationship-wise. EXCEPT that I think he's lying because I was the one who set up our banking accounts online and I can see perfectly well that he has over $5000.00 in the bank. So much for "I only have a thousand to give you right now", and so much for "of course I'm not planning on moving back out of the state right away"....
So, as I said to you before- I doubt very much that any of my hope for an "us" matters in the slightest!!!
poster:sunny10
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