Posted by LynneDa on December 16, 2003, at 9:15:27
In reply to Re: Saturday, posted by geri122 on December 15, 2003, at 14:39:08
Hi! It is really hard when you feel like your Dad is checking up on you. I would hate that too. It could be a negative thing, but more than likely he's worried and has no clue what to do! Men are practical and they are fixers. They see a problem and they want to do something about it - they seek a solution, and they don't always go about it in the most sensitive of ways! Here's an idea: If you think he's reading your computer, you should create a document that's titled "Dad, please read". Wouldn't that blow him away :-)!
A question for you. What kinds of incidents and situations trigger things for you? Maybe talking through specifics and giving you ideas on how to handle situations differently could help. We can give you the benefit of our YEARS of experience being on both sides of the family fence :-)!
Geri honey - Please remember and tell yourself every day: YOU are a wonderful human being with lots to offer the world. YOU deserve to feel better. You will have a happy future, I believe that. Please know that this is a temporary, fixable condition and that there is help available in many forms. Just get strong and take the steps you need to take. You will get there!!!!!
~ Lynne
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