Posted by Jai Narayan on December 12, 2003, at 17:41:31
In reply to Re: how to phrase a slow-down request?, posted by tabitha on December 12, 2003, at 16:53:46
Dear Medusa,
this is such a hard problem...not one I am a stranger to...but hard.
I have some questions:
Do you like her?
What are you getting out of this connection?
Is it worth all this struggle?
do you feel better when you are with her?
Do you feel worse?
What was breezyness for you? (why are the beginnings of connections so much more fun?)
Do you feel trapped?
Do you want to flee?
It seems like you want to run and stay all at the same time. You are caught in a conflicting situation.
I can say a lot of words but you know what it feels like to be in that situation. I don't. Your intuitive mind/body knows what it wants and doesn't want. It's hard cuz you want to stay and want to go at the same time.
That's my input...I hope it helps.
Jai Narayan
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URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20031207/msgs/289216.html