Posted by Susan J on October 20, 2003, at 8:50:14
In reply to Re: I love this thread :), posted by cybercafe on October 19, 2003, at 19:16:15
Good Morning, Cyber,
> let me know if i'm getting too personal but i would love to know what a guy can do to keep the sexual chemistry there ..... i'm wondering about innuendo/teasing, casual touching ... not just what i should be aiming at to be the next cassanova, but at least the basics that is expected
<<Not too personal to me, just don't know how appropriate it is for this board. Don't want to weird people out. :-)Again, it's personal taste. I like a guy who's mildly agressive but polite about it. I once had a guy tell me that I was *so* beautiful, would it be OK if he kissed me....So I got the mix of being made to feel attractive (to him) and his respecting *my* wishes as to whether he was gonna face-plant on me. :-) It's too oogy when a guy tries to kiss you and you're not ready for that.
After that, if you've seen *Bringing Down the House* with Steve Martin and Queen Latifah? I totally agree with Queen Latifah on how a guy should act in the bedroom. I'm not writing it here. :-)
>.. yeah....... that makes total sense ....
> what signals should a guy be looking for ?
<<I don't know. :-( I probably don't give out good signals, and I don't know what men look for. Eye contact never hurts. If she's able to keep eye contact fairly long, it's a sign she's interested.>> SHORT ANSWER: it all depends on the context ... if you are talking positive and confident and display that you can handle life and have all these desirable qualities being a little emotional is only a small part of the whole package you are selling then you are still a very desirable person!
<<Yeah, but all these adds are looking for bright, upbeat women, great outlook on life, zest for life, fun and happy.I feel more laid back than that most of the time....Nobody thinks I'm sad, though, so I must not be projecting that. And I don't go around saying doomy gloomy stuff either.
>> (then nothing happened because cybercafe didn't know how to advance the chemistry :( )
<<LOL! I don't mean to laugh, it's really very sweet. Call her! (Or did you not get her number?)Susan
poster:Susan J
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