Posted by Emme on July 9, 2003, at 5:14:25
In reply to Yes Greg?, posted by whiterabbit on July 8, 2003, at 19:27:21
Hi Gracie,
> Actually I'm doing real well, considering what's going on here at home.That's good. You're tough.
> I'm sort of in limbo. My lawyer is drawing up a petition for legal separation to answer my husband's petition for divorce.... I set him straight on that matter. I told him the ONLY reason I filed for separation instead of divorce is because I don't have my own medical coverage...
My mother and father had a legal separation for like 12 years. My mother wanted the insurance and I think my father was avoiding marrying the woman with whom he'd been cheating. Weird. But I do think protecting your insurance situation is important.
That's smart to keep that protection as long as you can.> Oh, I'll figure something out. I have a good mind WHEN it's working well, and I've pretty much recovered from the serious shock of my husband's intention to leave me.
As I said, you're pretty strong. I'm glad you feel like you've gotten over the shock.
> I can't even feel upset at the "other woman" because she has NO IDEA what she's getting into, and if HER mind is working she will hike it on out of their relationship pretty quick once she gets a good luck at the "real" Ken.
I think many "other women" are making poor choices when they go with the guy. After all, if he cheated on his wife, what's to stop him from cheating on them?
> weeeelll, missy, you're in for a ride....
But I'm on my way now and I'm glad.You take care.
Emme
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