Posted by fi on April 13, 2003, at 12:59:39
In reply to Lonely, posted by Miller on April 13, 2003, at 1:47:00
Have you considered talking to someone about this, like a relationship counsellor or pdoc if you have one?
There might be ways you could both work on the relationship. Or it might be that once your depression lifts (or if he understands it more), that the distance wont be so great? Your love for him comes across very clearly- does he know how you feel?
Please consider getting some help before you 'fast forward' into worrying about coping with another divorce, and if you would have another relationship? Tho I know very well that its easy to get into such worries.
I'm glad you posted here, so you have made contact with other people. I live on my own and have just spent 9 days on my own, tho able to get out of the house. Had one chatty phone call and several email chats with distant friends, and a doctors appointment. But otherwise no contact except being in the same place as other people- and posting to this board.
So I hope that you will also find that this is one way that you can deal with the loneliness just a little.
I've also found that posting here (and emailing friends) is very easy to do, when you feel too awful for a social phone call.
Good luck.
Fi
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