Re: Guilt--Wendy - NikkiT2

Posted by kath on December 17, 2002, at 20:20:46

In reply to Re: Guilt--Wendy » ROO, posted by NikkiT2 on December 13, 2002, at 16:38:02

Nikkity - I hope you know you can email me any time. I would be able to hear if you felt suicidal without feeling manipulated. But be warned, I couldn't stand the thought of you not being around, so I'd try to talk you out of it.
Luv ya, Kath xoxoxo
> "When is telling friends how you are feeling going over into the line of being
> manipulative? I wanna know because I don't want to be manipulative"
>
> It felt manipulative when I was threatened with her suicide.. when i felt if I didn;t do x or y, then she would do it, and I would be to blame. When the pressure of whethr she lived or died was on MY head... I felt manipulated then...
>
> Hope this helps... I am terrified of making someone feel like that, that is probably the main reason why I can't call out when I am suicidal.
>
> Nikki

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Tina - please let me explain. NikkiT2 12/13/02
Re: Guilt--Wendy ROO 12/13/02
Re: Guilt » NikkiT2 Tabitha 12/13/02
Re: Guilt--Wendy » ROO wendy b. 12/13/02
Re: Guilt--Wendy » ROO NikkiT2 12/13/02
Re: Guilt » NikkiT2 Dinah 12/13/02
Drat!!!! That was not directed to Nikki Dinah 12/13/02
Re: P.S. A memory Dinah 12/13/02
Re: Guilt » Dinah justyourlaugh 12/13/02
Re: Guilt--Wendy ROO 12/14/02
Re: Marsha Linehan (everyone) » Dinah Ted 12/14/02
Re: Tina - please let me explain. - Nik kath 12/17/02
Re: Guilt--Wendy - NikkiT2 kath 12/17/02

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