Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how??

Posted by snowden on October 31, 2002, at 13:20:34

In reply to Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how??, posted by coral on October 31, 2002, at 3:50:21

Coral...
I emailed him last night to tell him at least about the ED, and I feel so much better having done so. At least I don't feel like I'm hiding TOO much now. He called me today to let me know that he got my message and it doesn't sound like he's too scared yet. He really seems like a keeper!! He has been wondering about why I don't spend so much time with him, but he thought it was because I wasn't interested, which was the exact reason as to why I wanted him to know the truth. Time will tell if I've done the right thing, but my heart is telling me that I did. And, yes, my family does know, it's been going on for several years. Being hard on oneself is quite apart of the whole disorder...control freak, perfectionist...the irony of trying to strive for something that truly isn't attainable, yet while trying to control I am exactly the opposite - out of control. :)

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do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? snowden 10/29/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » snowden NikkiT2 10/29/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? snowden 10/29/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » snowden judy1 10/30/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » snowden Ted 10/30/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? coral 10/30/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » coral snowden 10/30/02
Will you do me a favor? » snowden judy1 10/30/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? coral 10/30/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » coral snowden 10/30/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? coral 10/31/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » snowden NikkiT2 10/31/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? » snowden judy1 10/31/02
Re: do i tell him about bpd/eating disorder?? how?? snowden 10/31/02
Thank you all for your insight... snowden 10/31/02
I'm really happy for you, good luck! :-) (nm) » snowden judy1 10/31/02

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